Hi Folks, I have been giving a lot of thoughts about my life and what I am going to do about it. Over the years I have really enjoyed sharing my life and adventures and the beautiful and not so beautiful [me]out in remote Alaska. It was tons of fun. Since I moved onto the road system, I find myself changing and not as happy as I once was
I am just not motivated as I once was and it has depressed me a lot. I am just not motivated anymore. Because of my exposure to Agent Orange, my health is affected some aspects of my life. My PTSD has increased and I have problems remembering things, tremors in my hands and balancing issues. I have been seeing two therapists one at the Veterans Center and one at the Veterans Administration for a few years and they have been a big help to me.
They noticed a big change in me since I returned from visiting my sister, niece, nephews and their children. We discussed this in length and come to the conclusion that I miss them so much. Anyway, my sister and I have been talking at length on the phone and sometimes spent hours talking and I have decided to move closer to my sister and kids. I have already started looking for property close by. I don't want to live in a city environment so, I am looking at properties in the Adirondacks which is a 5,000,000 acre State Park in Upstate, N.Y. It has been set in N.Y. State law, this park will remain forever wild and people are allowed to own property there but, no manufacturing is allowed, only small businesses.
The whole park has only 2 lane driving with only a 30-45 mph speed limit. You are only allowed to build structures that conform with the Wilderness setting. I am not sure I will sell both my Alaska properties or not but, I think I will sell my remote cabin or donate it to a Veterans Org. to use for disabled Vets. I will eventually sell my town cabin, I think or trade for a cabin in the Adirondacks.
I do know that once I make this change, I positive, my health will be better and things will be more positive and I won't be lonely for sure. I really do hope you all understand and support my decision, if not, oh well. Thanks.
21 comments:
Wow, you'll be right up the road from me! Where in the Adirondacks are you looking?
You have to do what's best for your well being and your health. I'm sure it will be very therapeutic to be close to your family again.
One request...please keep blogging! We all will want to hear about your new adventures!
Hi 518, I am looking at some properties in and around AuSable, Wilmington, Jay and Keene. These are very nice areas and great fishing. Maybe we will run into each other.
Hi, John! It sounds you are making a wise decision for you. Getting closer to family may make a good change for your life and loneliness. Please do continue to blog and keep us updated on your progress for this move. We do care!
Blessings!
CottonLady
Hi Cotton, thanks, I am excited about this and I will have a lot to blog about.
I know that area well! My husband has family in Ausable. You might also want to take a look at Elizabethtown, Brant Lake, Blue Mountain Lake and Loon Lake. Not sure how much property is available there, but very pretty areas!
"Adirondack John"......I like it.
I think it's a good decision. But please keep us updated when you can.
Hiya John I’m happy to hear about your decision to move closer to your family. It’s a good move John & family is important.. They have our backs when we need them and I’m certain your sister will love having her brother closer to visit. Please keep blogging as you can, sure wouldn’t want to lose an old friend. Take care my friend... & you are loved by all of us who follow you ... Bert From Bama
Thanks 518, I will check it out especiallyBlue Mountain Lake. They have an awesome museum there.
Hi Bert, thank you so much. My sister and the kids are pleased as well. This will be a crazy journey but, I am ready for it.
Hi bigfoot, thanks. I certainly will keep you on notice. This will be a great thing to blog about.
Hey John
I think you made a good decision. family is very important. especially the older one gets.
main reason we moved from Homer back to the Mat Valley, was to be closer to kids/grand kids.. Believe me, When I got a heavy lifting job, call a Son/Grandson and it's taken care of.. need the lawn mowed - call a 14 yr old grandson.. Of course I pay him for the lawn work. Moving is an adventure, so I'll expect you to tell us about it in your blogs.. Fair winds and following seas...
old John
Hi John, this is going to be a culture shock but, I feel it needs to be done. I visited family 2 years ago and that was the first time in 25 years. As I get older, I feel I will need family close by to help out with things. It will be nice to have the boys available to help me when needed. I will miss my ties here but, that's how it goes.
By the way Adiorondack John has a good sound to it :) Bert From Bama
Thanks Bert. It sings, lol.
Sounds great, John. And "Adirondack John" does have a good ring to it as mentioned above. lol Looks like a beautiful area. How's the cost of living up there if I might ask? Can you still buy a moderate home at a reasonable price in the area? Take care, look forward to reading about this new adventure. M.
Fully understand John. I moved back to Texas 8 years ago and were close to family but Alaska is tugging at my heart daily. Best of luck with your travels. Always enjoy reading your blog. Stay safe.
Billy Jack
Hi Billy, I really need this change if for no other reason, my health and being old as I am, having family close by is important. I am looking at this as another adventure.
Happy for you John and your family!
Dee
Hi Dee, thank you the kind words and support.
There are forks in the road of our lives. Sometimes we choose the remote one of unknown destination but at times we need/should choose to be near family and support. This sounds well thought out. Go for it!!
Thanks Art, very well said. I really miss my family.
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